Monday, January 17, 2011

Dealing with students

Hello.

What would you do when you are teaching in class,a student put his hands up and said

WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TEACHING?

This might sounds rude but for the record I had experience this before.Last semester break when i was teaching English at a tuition centre.



What does this boy actually mean?Opss i accidently revealed the identity of the student.Is my approach in teaching boring or is it the boy who has discipline problem or worst he has problems in understanding lectures?

WHAT ARE YOU TEACHERS GOING TO DO?

YELL back at him?SCOLD him?or hell will break loose and you just hit him on the face?Far worst,you humiliate them just to make him behave the way you wanted him to be.Ask me.I will definitely answer that i just smile back at him and continue teaching because at the moment,that was the only thing that a newly mould future teacher is supposed to do.As teachers,you cannot cry in front of your students or get mad at the boy immediately because that would be unfair to the rest of the students in the room and even unethical.So how are we going to handle the classroom everytime we enter the class?How are you going to handle those kind of students?

Well,fellow future teachers this is the time where you imply your self-control and start learning what is the DO's and DON'Ts.

To avoid having your students acting beyond the limit,there are several ways you can practise to keep them liking you and accepting you to deliver the knowledge to them.


  1. Always smile and be friendly with your students to allow them develop interest in learning from you.
  2. Make yourself approachable yet not becoming friends to them as friendship implies the give and take principle
  3. NEVER stop a class and confront the students over their minor fractions in class as it is hard to create a win-win situation which will rupture the self-confidence the offending students in class
  4. Bias.Do not practise any favor in class especially based on ECONOMIC STATUS,SOCIAL STRATA,RELIGION and even RACE.
  5. Humiliating students just to get them to behave will be another MISTAKE because positive relationship between the teachers and students will be ruined thus students will lose confidence in you and making learning unsuccessful.
  6. YELL.Yelling tells that you already lost the battle.Raising voice in class will not make students respect you but they will be vexed.
  7. Giving the power to control to students.This is to avoid you from becoming a doormat if you simply give in to any demands from your students without considering the pros and cons first.
  8. Do create rules that are essentially fair and valid for all situations.Do be flexible with students that have valid excuse if they did not turn in their homeworks on time.
  9. Have sense of humour when teaching.Humour will release the tense in class and makes learning more fun and enjoyable.
  10. Punctual.
and yes people,HEIGHT or BEAUTY does not count.Thou i'm short yet not beautiful i still can make a great teacher in the future.SO DO YOU!

InsyaALLAH.







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Motivational Story

Assalamualaikum.

Today i'm going to share a motivational story that always make me wanting to try my best to be an ideal teacher.



My grandson starts school today. It’s going to be strange and new to him for a while, and I wish you would sort of treat him gently.

You see, up to now, he’s been king of the roost — he’s been boss of the backyard. His mom, dad, and Grandma have always been around to repair his wounds, and soothe his feelings.

But now things are going to be different! This morning he’s going to walk down the front steps, wave his hand, and start out on a great adventure… it’s an adventure that might take him across the continent… it’s an adventure that might incllude wars and strategy and sorrow.

To live his live in this world, will require faith and love and courage. So teacher, I pray you will take him by his young hand and teach him the things he will have to know.

Teach my grandson teacher — but gently, if you can. He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just, that all men are not true.

But teach him also, that for every scounderel, there is a hero.. that for every crooked politician, there is a dedicated leader. Teach him that for every enemy, there is a friend.

It will take time teacher, I know, but teach my grandson, if you can, that a nickel earned is far more value than a dollar found… teach him to learn to lose… and to enjoy winning.
Steer him away from envy, if you can, and teach him the secret of quiet laughter.

Let my grandson learn early that the bullies are the easiest people to lick.. teach him, if you can, the wonder of books… but also give him quiet time to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun, and flowers on a green hill.

In school, teacher, teach him it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat… teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him that he is wrong… teach him to be gentle with gentle people and tough with tough people.

Try to give my grandson strength not to follow the crowd when everyone else is getting on the bandwagon… teach him to listen to all men… but, teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.

Teach my grandson teacher.. but gently if you can, how to laugh when he is sad… teach him there is no shame in tears… teach him there can be glory in failure and despair in success.

Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob… and to stand and fight if he thinks he is right.

Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness.. teach him to sell his brawn and brains to the highest bidders but, never, never, put a price tag on his heart and soul.

Treat my grandson gently, teacher, but don’t coddle him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel.. let him have the courage to be impatient… let him have the patience to be brave.

Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself. Because then he will have sublime faith in God and Mankind.

This is a tall order, teacher, but please help him if you can do. You see, he’s such a nice little fellow… my grandson.

Teach my grandson, teacher.. but gently if you can.

Adapted by Thomas Halbert







So,future teachers have this story as your guide. While teaching do it gently,be understanding and be motivational.




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